I have had several life-changing events happen since I blogged last. This blog generally falls by the way-side and is the first thing to be dropped when life gets busy. I don’t make it a priority to blog, but I do like to catch things up every once in awhile.
Dr. Love has a job!! He is working for a company that provides housing in a group-home setting. He is really loving it and it has been SO good for him! One of the best things is that he has to get up at 6:00 a.m. Monday through Saturday. He really struggled with it at first, feeling tired all the time, but I think now part of him likes it because he is getting so much done. He works split-shifts on Thursday and Friday, which means I’m on my own for those two nights. He has also recently picked up a 7a.m. – 3p.m. shift on Saturdays, which I am starting to get used to. In a way, it is nice, because it gives me time to take care of all of those things on my to-do list. I do miss him by Saturday evening and it is true, that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Things are going really well for us and our relationship, it seems, has been developing into something stronger and more wonderful every day.
I also have a new job. Right after my last post, my employer informed me that they were eliminating my position from their programming. I was fairly upset about it, but not panicked. Being the very lucky gal I am (plus all the hard work proving myself as one excellent employee 🙂 ), the state decided to create a position for me. I was unemployed for two whole days! I am doing basically the same things with a smaller caseload. I like it because I feel like I am able to do more for each inmate and it is more case-management oriented, which I really enjoy and have a lot of experience with. I am also able to get in on the ground level of a new curriculum that is centered around mothers on the inside and will also be doing some program development and starting some trauma groups on my own. I’m really excited and the potential for career growth and development is HUGE. Not to mention great benefits and more pay, working for the state. I really love my co-workers and enjoy going to work every day. That’s a big change from working for the mental health contractor, where I usually dreaded going to work every day. The morale is much higher with the state.
More news…I quit my DBT group. I missed three sessions in a row due to having trainings to go to with the new job, and I didn’t feel like I missed it. I really just needed a refresher to get back into practicing my skills and I felt like I had it. I know that if I start struggling again that I can go back to it. For now, I am working on practicing my skills every day and also am focusing on those skills in therapy, which I still do every other week with Goddess of Mindfulness.
I recently started a Slim-Fast diet. My eating, and thus my weight, have really spiraled out of control over the past few months and I got to the point where I was so uncomfortable that I really felt like I needed to do something. I was at the point where just going to work and doing the walking that I have to do in a day’s time was wearing me out, making my body ache, and I really couldn’t do all of the things I wanted to do to be more active. The diet is going really well and the pounds are coming off. Having less variety at breakfast and lunch is actually a good thing for me. I just vary my snacks and my dinners so I don’t get too bored, and alternate shake flavors. In the mornings, at least on the weekends, I will make myself a smoothie with a shake and frozen fruit, which is always a real treat. I do not feel deprived at all and am enjoying being able to regulate my eating better. Plus, I am feeling great, more energy and less achiness.
Something that has truly been life-changing is finally getting a sleep study done and starting to use a CPAP machine. It has really made all of the difference in the world. I was diagnosed with “severe, chronic, symptomatic obstructive sleep apnea” and, the very day after my sleep study went to the medical supply company closest to my house and was fitted for a mask and machine. While it took some getting used to and adjusting, the transition really wasn’t all that hard and it is AMAZING how much better and awake I feel. I have always really struggled with sleeping and feeling rested, often falling asleep during the day and feeling dazed all the time, and it’s magical how CLEAR I feel now, and how rested I am.
So, I plan to try and blog at least once a week, especially now that I have more “me” time due to Dr. Love working. It helps me to clear my mind and I like to keep family and friends updated with what I am doing. I do need to get a new pic for my masthead and if anyone has a great one that symbolizes springtime, feel free to pass it on. I’ll even give you credit! 🙂
Jack Johnson, Times Like These