I was thinking today about how people find my blog, and, alternately, how I find other peoples’ blogs. I probably follow too many blogs — 242, to be exact. Of course that is accumulated over several years, and many are now defunct. Here lately I have been trying to find some new blogs to read, blogs that I really “get” and that are either funny, touching, or talk about something I believe is important.
I have my ultimate favorite blogs of the now; the blogs that I will read no matter how little time I have and no matter how long it takes me to get to it. I have blogs I will frequently comment on, to blogs that I generally just hit the like button. And then there are the blogs of the people I consider my friends, and I try to do my very, very best to always read and always leave a comment with content.
I have blogs that I will skip out on reading that day, due to not having time or having a severe annoyance with the topic at hand (excuse me, I think it’s important, too, but I cannot read another single line of political commentary. Although Greg Fallis did a quite hilarious one on Texas Republicans, in a fashion that only he can.).
I find that I tend to move within a “reading circle,” in that, on most posts that I am dropping by to say hello on, almost all of the Gravatars are the same, from blog to blog. I’m not sure exactly how this happens — maybe it’s how some of my seemingly-random readers find me; don’t know. What I do know is that it’s kind of fun to read along together, to comment along together, to grow along as a community together.
Sometimes I think people in the same reading group should really sit down and have a cup of virtual lemonade. What brought us here, initially? What else are we interested in? Any new blogs to recommend? And what are you READING? Because, if you’re in a similar circle 0f blog readers, you are undoubtedly reading the same books and could likely save yourself a few dollars buying the latest best-seller-that-is-junk on Amazon.
I can more readily identify most bloggers by Gravatar than name. I mean, that IS why there are Gravatars, I’m sure. But sometime I wish I would make time to sit down and scout out my fellow reading circle’s blogs. I think I would probably find a wealth of people with similar interests. I know for a fact that I am looking for more mental health blogs to follow, and have been somewhat out of luck there. (That’s a hint for you to leave me recommendations in the comments!)
While I don’t have a perfect idea about how to find other blogs, I have no ideas on how people find my blog. I don’t get weird search terms. I do get search terms from DBT, but not tons. Readers seem to mysteriously come and go, and maybe that is just the way things go. I think it’s altogether possible that some of my readers are spam, as they come by, follow, and never like or read (to my knowledge).
Maybe the Daily Prompt could do something on say, how do readers come to your doorstep? Then bunches of people could give their theories and maybe we would find the correct answer. As you can see here, I’m all about finding the correct answer.
As my man Insights of a Bipolar Bear says, people don’t like to read over 600 words, so I’m shutting this brain down. Don’t forget to leave your favorite mental health blogs in the comments!