I don’t want to brag, but my nephew is just over seven weeks old, and my sister just sent me some photos of him on his tummy, and, I swear to you, the boy looks ready to scoot around, if not crawl. Maybe I’m reading too much into it, but I’m telling you, that’s the look on his face.
I had a very productive day yesterday in which I completely cleaned my kitchen, including scrubbing down cabinets and baseboards, bleaching my counters, cleaning out my coffee pot, reorganizing tupperware, finding all of the missing kitchen towels and potholders and putting them in their correct places, unloading and reloading my dishwasher twice, and watering all of the plants in my window garden. I am pumped and ready to take on another day.
I also started and completed quite a bit of laundry, including putting away a mess of clothes that were clean and heaped up on my folding table. My goal today is to get all of the laundry done, and to be able to see the floor. My big motivation is that I keep finding quarters everywhere and it just may add up to enough to go buy a bunch of Lifesavers. Wild cherry, preferably.
Sometimes it’s the little things in life that we take for granted, or the people in our life we take for granted. DSB has ceased the invalid routine, and so I am rewarding him in many ways. Mostly, by bribing him with fresh-brewed sweet tea and making excellent meals. They do say a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, and I think there’s a bit of truth in that. If I can keep him happy, it’s a happier household. Similarly, if I can keep myself busy and happy, then I’m less apt to be bitchy and unhelpful to the process.
The time changed on Sunday, as you all may know. Or at least those living in the USA, other than Arizona, who does not participate. Do other countries around the world do DST? I must know, could Google it, but it would be so much more fun to hear about it in the comments section, along with how you adapt.
I was very concerned that DST was going to make me be late to everything, as I had overslept Sunday morning by a long shot. I think it turns out that I was just overly tired, because I have been up since 5:30am (which is early for me) and feel completely refreshed.
Something new and wonderful is happening in my life. DSB has decided that he wants to try and sleep in the same bed again. Woot woot! This may sound strange, but, with the exception of his first couple of weeks here, I have slept in bed and he has slept on the couch or the recliner, citing pain and waking me up incessantly.
Since that time, my sleep routine has stabilized quite a bit and he thought we could give it another go. It has been absolutely wonderful to fall asleep with my elbow and hand resting on his side (whereas, I generally propped myself up with Rascal, our dog), and I have been getting great sleep. He has not, but he wants to keep trying. He says the reason he is not sleeping has nothing to do with me, but everything to do with the chronic pain he deals with.
Even on the couch or the recliner, he has a lot of pain, so we were hoping it would be eased a bit by being in bed. No such luck, but as I said, we’re going to keep trying. Ideally, we could get one of those adjustable beds, but they are ridiculously expensive, so I guess we’ll just have to win the lottery first. What is it they say? You have to play to win? Right, right.
To make the day simpler, and allow me to hopefully get out and get the car washed amongst all the laundry madness, I just put a nice pork roast in with a bunch of sauerkraut into the slow cooker. We’ll have it over either baked potatoes or mashed potatoes and it will be delicious. And easy! So easy!
Maybe I’m a simple person, but getting things done and making a good meal and treating other people well makes me happy. Simple or not, I will continue on, and, in keeping with my homework, will find a stranger today that I can give a random kindness to. These things all add up.
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Never underestimate the good feelings that can come from accomplishing every day tasks. It brings a lot of things into balance within yourself.
I totally agree. Especially about keeping a clean kitchen. The rest of my house can be a relative disaster, but if my kitchen is sparkling, I figure it’s gonna be ok. 😀
FYI, the price of adjustable beds has come WAY down and for anyone suffering from back problems, breathing problems, blood pressure, etc., it is SO worth the money. It’s a life-changer. Not only do I say so, but so says anyone who has one. You should check local mattress and/or bed outlets to see what deals they are offering (not those TV offers!). I won’t even take a finder’s fee 🙂
I did think they were pretty pricey, but I’ll have to look into it. DSB has all of the above (back problems, breathing problems, high blood pressure) and I just think they look comfy. Maybe that will be our next bed…if I can talk him into it. 😀
A lovely post, Rose. Wishing you all good things.