With the exception of “Dear God: You Forgot to Mention the Bad Parts” (which was one of my favorite posts of recent, but that received almost no attention…go look!), I have mostly been doing challenges for my post updates. Lots of list posts, goal posts, thankful posts. That’s all well and good, but I don’t want to be THAT blogger. I started this blog to put it all out there and to process and to be reminded that I am flawed, but human. I haven’t been putting it all out there.
I know we’re all tired of Rosa saying what crap 2014 has been (but it has), and it’s safe to say that my mental health has taken a nosedive once again. There are reasons, though, this time. There were triggers to the nosedive and I am going to say like I say on my tagline and “tell it like it is.”
Firstly, I have been going through a family struggle. It’s something that everyone wants to keep private for very good reason, but it’s really been bringing me down. I don’t know how many tears I have cried over this, and I don’t know when or if it will get better. It weighs on my mind heavily, maybe more so than it should.
Then, there’s all the med changes. No more Zyprexa and no tapering off the 10mg I took three times a day. No more sleeping pill (a benzo) after a very short taper. And remember the Geodon decrease and the Abilify upswing. All 0f this within the last little while. The no more sleeping pill thing has probably been the worst and I haven’t slept in days. I did, however, get a reprieve and was prescribed a small dose of Trazadone that I am hoping will work wonders. I want to sleep, I don’t want to be comatose. Hence getting off the other sleeping pill (plus, the sleep-driving just wasn’t a good thing).
The pressures to change my lifestyle. Quit smoking AND lose weight. Start exercising. Eat healthier. Taper down your smoking. All at once, all coming at me from family, friends, doctors. Everyone means well, I know, but I can’t do it all at once. Goddess of Mindfulness told me today the same thing: Rose, you can’t do it all at once. She thinks this is a terrible time to quit smoking, even though I have been amping up for it for almost two weeks now. She says I need to let my meds even out, start sleeping again.
Goddess of Mindfulness also thinks I need to focus on healthy eating. She thinks it will make me feel better overall. My dad really wants me to join a gym, after I mentioned that I might at some point want to do water aerobics. The doctors are telling me no help for me until I quit smoking. Everyone else just looks at me and my growing size and horrible cough and tries to recommend something. Or just looks at me.
Something has to give. Right now, in this very moment, my eating is out of control and I have to fix that. Weight loss surgery somewhere down the line? Maybe. For right now, though, there has to be a change within my brain. This is something I can do anytime.
Quitting smoking? I will continue to cut back. I will quit within the next month or so. Can I do it all at once? No.
Exercising. I do want to do the water aerobics classes, but money prevents it, and right now I am so out of breath to do anything, that continuing smoking prevents it.
And all 0f the aforementioned squirrels just run around my mind chattering, and I am overwhelmed, and I feel like I’m losing it. Something has GOT to give.